Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 26 years old, young man that recently found myself in a huge dilemma. My ex-girlfriend (23 years old) and I have been together for a year now, but I questioned the relationship the entire time. After being warned from several sources that she was a "bad girl", I decided to find out for myself. My homeboy and I came up with a plan for him to meet up with her and make advances toward her to test her reaction. As we expected, she was receptive to his advances and flirted with him. This was enough for me to call off the relationship. Fast forward to last week, this is where everything turned ugly. I was out hanging with my homeboy and a group of friends when he admitted that the night he met up with my girlfriend, they went all the way. This turned into a heated argument and almost led to a fight. Steve and Shirley, what do I do? I've been so stressed about this that I missed all my exams a week before I was set to graduate with my masters degree. I can't help but feel like I brought this on myself. I am hurt that my best friend would sleep with my girlfriend and to make matters worst, I am still in love with this "bad" girl.

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Chad Johnson sentenced to 30 days in jail after slapping his lawyer’s butt in court

ACCORDING TO YAHOO SPORTS

Former NFL receiver Chad  Johnson was all set to avoid jail time with a plea deal in a Broward County, Fla., courtroom. He and his attorney were on the verge of striking a plea deal with Judge Kathleen McHugh that would have Johnson avoiding the slammer despite probation violations. Last August, Johnson pleaded no contest last August to a domestic violence charge after he allegedly head-butted his then-wife, reality TV star Evelyn Lozada, during an argument. Johnson was arrested in May for failing to meet with his probation officer.

Johnson had his day in court Monday morning, but things went south very quickly just after he playfully slapped his attorney on the butt on Judge McHugh's time. McHugh accused Johnson of failing to take the proceedings seriously after the entire courtroom broke out in laughter, sentenced him to 30 days in jail, and extended his probation to Dec. 21, 2013.

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Woman allegedly stabs man to death with stiletto heel

ACCORDING TO THE NEW YORK DAILY NEWS

A Texas woman stabbed a man to death with the heel of her own shoe, police said.

Ana Lilia Trujillo, 44, repeatedly jabbed a stiletto into her 59-year-old victim's body at a high-rise luxury condo where University of Houston staff live, it's alleged.

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Good morning, Steve, Shirley, Carla and Nephew Tommy!! I am 24 years old and last year around July and August, I began to have sexual relations with one of my co-workers. This is not the first time I've done this, but this situation was completely insane! Where do I start? The co-worker I was sleeping with had a boyfriend which I knew about but didn't care. She also had slept with another co-worker who happens to be one of my friends inside my own place where I sleep (which she claims that wasn't her intentions) while I was on vacation. But that was before we started hitting the sheets. So one day she told my friend (the co-worker she slept with) the only person she would mess with at work is me! So he informed me and my number was given to her by him and that's when the roller coaster ride began. We started texting back and forth for a couple of days and she confessed to me how bad she wanted to get with me but I was always quiet around her and never made a move. So before we began sleeping together, she confirmed to me that she has a boyfriend and he might start working in the same department as me. I told her I didn't care and we both assumed it was going be a one time thing but sex changes everything and the one-time thing evolved in to four times a day thing. Feelings manifested and we starting being attached to one another; not only because of the great sex but because of our magnetic personalities and not to mention growing up in the surroundings as a infant. Let me get to the point of this letter before it takes up the show's segment. After countless lies and sneaking around, She finally ended up breaking up with her boyfriend and we started to have a boyfriend/girlfriend type of relationship but in her eyes it wasn't. We started to get more and more intimate with each other and she ended up pregnant. She insisted on getting an abortion which I was totally against but she said that we are not ready for this kind of responsibility. To be honest, I think she didn't want it because it will make her look bad at work and she didn't want her ex boyfriend to be find out she's been giving away her plate. She was pregnant earlier that year too and had got an abortion also. I hated that about her. A month passed by and she wanted to purchase a vehicle to get around and she got lucky when one of her friends offered her a car for $3,000. She didn't have enough money, so, me being the Virgo I am, offered to help instead of purchasing a car myself. I ended up giving her $1,250 for the vehicle. We made a deal that if I was to purchase a car of my own she would help me. January came and she finally got a promotion at work and I started to see a change in her attitude toward me. She would not call me anymore and the sex wasn't the same and that was because she and her ex starting talking again. And then I figured out what she was doing. This heifer was trying to delete me out of her life like I was an old number! Eventually, we stopped hanging out like we used too and the only thing she would do for me was drop me off at work. There was this one time at work when she went off on me for no reason but no one was in the room to witness that. Even after that incident I still tried to be professional at work with her but all she gives me is attitude. There was this one time she was coming to get me to drop me off at work and this heifer had the audacity to tell me that her ex boyfriend is gonna be riding with us for now on in the morning! That's when it hit me ... this heifer is crazy! From that day forward, me and that crazy woman haven't spoken to each other. She's back with her boyfriend and they both work with me. I don't talk to either of them because I don't have too. I'm in a different department now and sometimes I do have to work with them but I don't speak a word to either him or her. I left out a lot of details in this letter. She's 27! How do you guys feel about this situation. If you were in my shoes, what should I do from this day forward?

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Right-wing uses heckler as excuse to attack Michelle Obama again

ACCORDING TO MSNBC

Right-wing pundits have practically perfected the art of attacking a first lady since Michelle Obama moved into the White House in 2008, and the heckler who interrupted the first lady at DNC fundraiser provided the latest round of fodder.

It began with Matt Drudge, of the right-wing Drudge Report, who tweeted that the first lady seemed “ready to explode.”

Then Rush Limbaugh joined the chorus on his radio show Wednesday.

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