Dear Steve and Shirley, I am writing with hopes you can give me some good advice. I married my husband in 2008 and immediately after we got married, the sex stopped. My husband was diagnosed with erectile dysfunction and can only get an erection with Viagra now. Because of this, he feels like less a man and refuses to attempt to have sex with me. I stuck by his side and remained a faithful, yet frustrated wife. We want to have a family and began fertility treatments. During the entire fertility journey, we still have not had sex, because of my husbands embarrassment. I began to complain to a male friend of mine who, before I was married, I used to have sex with. This male friend and I began having sex in October of this year. On November 5, I found out I was pregnant, but I am not sure who the father of the baby can be. I had sex with the male friend on October 21st and we used protection once and no protection the second time. Then, I had my artificial insemination on October 22nd. My husband has no idea about my relationship with the male friend and is so excited about me being pregnant. I have not told my male friend that he may be the father of my baby. Should I confess to my husband that I have been cheating on him and that he may not be the father of our baby? Should I inform my male friend that I am pregnant and that he may be the father? Thank you Steve and Shirley

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